14個月大既Midby (其實仲有兩日先到)

Midby媽M痛的一天

Thanks God既係我而家M痛已經比起生Midby之前好得多了。

一直我都冇m痛, 但去到2006年, 結婚之後, 我就開始有m痛。當時我做過Body check, ultrasound之後又唔見有咩問題, 但係每次M既3rd日中午就會好痛, 痛個幾兩個鐘, 流出一d內膜咁既物體之後就會舒服番。

呢個情況都成年幾了, 去到2007年開始想要BB時, 我又去做多次ultrasound啦, 點知發現有個子宮肌瘤, 之後又發現左面卵巢有個朱古力瘤...唉! 天呀!

食左中藥之後3個月已經冇左個子宮肌瘤。我估係d經血流得唔乾淨, 令到子宮表面有d不平滑, 食左中藥, 令到d血排得好d, 應該會對初發既子宮肌瘤有幫助。

可惜卵巢既朱古力瘤就麻煩了...

到而家我都唔知係唔係因為子宮內膜異位症而引起有呢個卵巢瘤。

好在, 食左7-8個月中藥, 個瘤由最大既3cm去到2cm, 之後好好彩有左Midby, 生完Midby之後就細到1.xcm。

我一直都好想因為左生Midby, 而令到個瘤冇左, 不過生完2-3個月去Dr Wong度check, 仲見到有。

唔知我呢個瘤捱唔捱到去我更年期都唔洗做手術呢?

不過生左Midby之後, 已經冇左3rd 日o個種M痛了, 上個幾星期去照ultrasound, 我見到個screen度scan我既uterus時, 我覺得比起之前乾淨左好多, 白色既地方多好多, 個醫生仲話卵巢冇事...但係我見到佢有measure某一個地方, 而個size係1.xcm X 1.x cm架喎...希望等埋個report出左來都話我冇事啦!

講番我個Midby仔先! 佢真係一個小朋友黎架喇...好似我尋晚拆左個膠袋包裝, 佢左手law住個包裝紙label, 右手就law住膠袋, 我叫佢give me the plastic bag, 佢好自然就將佢右手既野比左我。

plastic bag呢個字冇咩點教過佢, 最多都係幾次, 但係我開心既唔係佢識呢個字, 而係佢明白我地, 同佢既相處就好似同個大人咁, 好有默契!

Midby o係13個幾月開始明顯講多左野, 而家佢舉起隻手指某一d野時, 佢會叫; 呢個星期自從識左郁個身去表達yes之後, 佢就成日都會郁, 特別係佢見到d野食, 又或者睇書時, 我地未滿足到佢, 又或者未開口問係"Do you want ...", 佢就會自己o係度郁哂成個身去表達yes。

佢而家識得有意識講 (即係見到o個樣野會講既), baba, mama, 姐姐, 大助, lion, 女麻女麻, 奶奶。佢都識講byebye, 同埋成日講touch touch ..., 尋晚就跟住姐姐講duck。

好多時佢都可以講姐姐...奶奶, 即係幾隻字一齊講。又有好多好多時間叫baba..mama, 唔知係唔係佢想叫我, 但係又口快快叫左baba先呢!

佢識得既物體好多好了, 有:
1) animals - cat, dog, giraffe, zebra, hippo, crocodile, horse, cow, camel, panda, pig, sheep, lion, tigar, rabbit, etc
2) food - rice, noodles, bread, biscuit, cake, ice-cream, jelly, candies, milk, juice, egg, etc
3) fruit - apple, peach, banana, pineapple, durian, lemon, watermelon, kiwi, papaya, avocado, peach, mango, etc
3) colours - 同次前幾個月都係一樣, 冇咩教多佢新既colours, 都係red, pink, blue, green,
4) fruniture - sofa, midby's chair, mama's chair, sofa, bed,
5) 身體各部位 - eyes, nose, face, mouth, teeth, tongue, hair, head, ears, eyebrow, chin, elbow, knees, toes, foot, leg, arm, (armpit未熟)
6) cartoon characters - elmo, big bird, winnie the pooh, tiger, piglet, baby stweenty, micky mouse, donald duck, ding dong, 大助, baby mell, baby corelle, princess, gymbo
7) clothing - dress, clothes, pants, hat, hairclip, comb
8) others - flowers, trees, grass, A-E, car, taxi, light, lamp, bus, plastic bag, pillow, shelf, TV, mat, blocks, stickers, kitchen, toilet, wee wee, poo poo, 揹帶, bubbles, look up, arms up, hat, button, press, kick, shake, blanket, drinking, crawling, sing, hold, knock on the door, window, boat, sea, pen, hammer, lift, escalator, stairs, books, read, computer, fan, spoon, fork, knife, piano, cream, shoes, oil, socks, baby car, etc

好多媽媽都想bb快d識字, 我當然都想, 不過我覺得小朋友識得認物件, 當聽到個物件個名時已經明白係咩來已經好好了。其實有專家話BB去到aged6都可以唔洗識字既, 我都開始明白呢個道理, 我而家教Midby都係認物件先, 好間唔中教佢認d英文字..唔好話佢喇, 我係大人都覺得唔係易事, 又冇顏色, 又冇形狀, 係有一定難度, 所以我好間唔中先會教佢d 字, 而家佢都識得o係本sliding book度認得dog, cat, tigar, drinking, 即係成本ybcr 既字, 不過我覺得佢認得d 位多過真係認得d英文字!

我相信Midby而家已經好清楚知道一樣野都有佢既名稱, 當佢聽到佢熟野既野時佢會好安心, 但當我問佢一d佢唔識既野, 又或者同佢講一d新既野, 佢會有d驚, 由企變成要我抱, 望佢對眼就知道佢o係度諗緊野。

我呢個Midby仔, 呢個月大得好快, 佢而家自己law奶樽, 肚餓叫奶奶, 開始好鐘意睇書 (叫我地讀書比佢聽), 如果我地話finished, 佢就會嘈, 又或者law另外一本比我地, 如果我同佢讀讀下書之後同其他人講野, 佢會好嘈, 叫我同佢讀書, 另外開始捉我隻手指去另一頁, 叫我唔好再講左面o個頁喇, 叫佢turn, find佢都識, 如果Midby大個之後都咁鐘意睇書, 就very good了!

唔知係唔係自然婆婆日日帶佢去街, 我又weekend同佢出街, 女麻女麻又帶佢去clubhouse度, 佢而家已經冇咁驚人了, 除左唔比人抱之外, 見到唔識既人都唔會喊或嘈, 只係靜靜地望住人就算了。

可能呢個都係developmental milestone其中一項佢達到既係佢對particular person 有affection, o個個應該係我..有時係姐姐囉!

後記: body check 結果出左, 話我個chocolate cyst已經冇左.....我好doubt! 有咩可能會冇左? 可能係細左, 而唔係咁易檢查到, 又或者ultrasound呢樣野根本唔係咁易check到....點都好, 我都會小心身體!